We must understand that in this day and age, information is readily available to all, in other words the level of enlightenment has greatly increased compared to what used to be. The contemporary guy knows exactly what he wants in his dream lady and can spot it immediately he discovers it. As much as you expect nice qualities from a friend, date or hubby, much more is expected of you and sometimes these personal traits could influence the way he treats you.
Some of these traits are natural basically, but most are acquired (they have to be consciously worked out). I will attempt to identify some here but as we know the list is inexhaustible:
1. Facial Traits:
- Disposition
- Facial Comportment
- Presentation
2. Body Language:
- Speech Pattern:
It is not just about talking but making sure that your feelings, thoughts and messages are passed on to your partner in the right way and at the right time. This is to ensure effective communication.
- Respect For Others:
- Teachability:
3. Determine Your Asset Level :
It will be a matter of injustice to a potential partner or a spouse to think that it is only a man that needs to build himself up to become a valuable asset. Actually, at present, a lady is causing herself more harm than good if she does not:
She must ensure she:
- Takes deliberate steps to acquire new skills and sharpen already learned ones.
- Utilises these skills for productivity and impact on the society at large.
I must stress that finance should not be seen as a hindrance to development of oneself because determination is the most important factor. Remember nothing can stop a made up mind. So think it, act it, achieve it now . Start today, make that inquiry, get close to that friend of yours that specialises in your area of interest, plan to attend that seminar or course! The top will be inevitable for you definitely.
A woman of asset is always a source of joy to her partner and he will always be proud to call her his HELPMEET.
4. Homeliness:
Charity they say begins at home. Therefore, a lady must exhibit all round beauty to include ability to maintain a good house keeping at all times. A well kept house is always welcoming to occupants and visitors of a home on the other hand, an unkempt house is not only a turn-off for a man but poses a problem to the marriage and these include:
Hygiene/ health problems emanating from various infection and contamination of edibles.
It could lead to quarrels between a couple to the extent of pushing the man to begin to look outside.
As a matter of fact, a lady MUST pay as much attention to housekeeping as she does to her appearance otherwise she will be undoing herself.
Some ladies may think men do not take note of some things. The truth is that they pay attention to how a lady keeps her home while they are in a relationship with her. It contributes to the decision he will take about whether to settle down with the lady or not.
The list is inexhaustible like I have said earlier and the truth is that virtuous women do not fall from the sky. They are persons that have made conscious efforts to set themselves apart and make themselves become a woman that any man will seek.
Strive to be part of those called virtuous and the right man will never let go when he finds you.
Remain blessed.
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