Tips to make your relationship last longer

Dear reader,

You will agree with me that some of the commonest phrases about marriage include; 'marriage is not for babies',  'wedding is one day, marriage is forever',  'marriage is not easy' and the list goes on and on.  

As a Christian, I know that you possess what you confess because life and death are in the power of the tongue and "as a man thinks so is he"; Proverbs 23:7.

Now, some of the phrases above emanated from some people's experiences in marriage but you can determine to have a sweet one or change the current situation. And trust me it's achievable.  Always remember that the circumstances that triggered these phrases at that time are quite different from the one you may be in now. Times are different.

Secrets to a lasting relationship and marriage

Still in the mood of love I welcome you to your season of joy and happiness my dear Babe2wife reader, hope the chocolates have not finished yet.

"A merry heart doeth good like medicine but a broken spirit ...".

You will agree with me that there is a direct impact between one’s relationship and his or her entire well being.

This can be better appreciated in marriage. That’s why one can quickly tell if a marriage is successful by the changes that take place few years after tying the nuptials. This is always evident in all ramifications namely; spiritually, financially, physically and socially.

I will also like to buttress the importance of careful selection of a life partner,  being aware of the wide implications it has on the outcome of your life.

Moving on, let’s look at some of these ageless secrets.

What you should have as a Lady to attract a man

Hi Diva, I  believe  you are basking in so much love and happiness. Today, we are looking inwards, as we discuss the traits that qualify a lady as a true friend but not just that. We will be looking at key character traits that a real guy looks out for in a lady that he will want to consider for friendship, love and marriage.

We must understand that in this day and age, information is readily available to all, in other words the level of enlightenment has greatly increased compared to what used to be. The contemporary guy knows exactly what he wants in his dream lady and can spot it immediately he discovers it. As much as you expect nice qualities from a friend, date or hubby, much more is expected of you and sometimes these personal traits could influence the way he treats you.

How to identify a true friend

Dear reader, 

I trust that your weekend has been awesome and interesting.

In continuation of my last post on the interesting topic 'FRIENDSHIP', which I strongly believed was of great impact to you, I'll like us to look at ways of identifying a true friend and  importance of  doing so before thinking about dating or marriage. 

Before we go indepth permit me to serve you this very interesting story and I hope you draw the lessons in between the lines. I'll tell the story as delivered by the lady involved and it goes thus;

There is this lady by name Karina who met Josh when she was just in her second year in college, Josh was at that time a law graduate who had just picked up a lecturing job in a higher institution in a city quite a distance from Karina's school. 

They met one lovely afternoon while she was on holidays, they got talking, the guy expressed his love for her and she was swept off her feet by some traits she was able to see in the guy within two dates, Josh was quite good looking, very brilliant, chatty and also showed strong religiosity which matched Karina's mental picture of her ideal man. 

The MUST HAVE ingredient in a love relationship

Moving into the realm of friendship makes love affairs sweet.

Dear reader,

Today, I will like to spice up your week with this beautiful attribute of love affair which is so vital yet often overlooked by many.

The neglect of this attribute is majorly connected with LUST, sheer impatience or haste to be in a relationship which ends such fellows in a 'stressed love relationship'. Many have fallen victims of the harsh realities of a relationship built in a hurry - based on what the eyes can see, what the heart feels and deceit, leaving them with disappointment and heartbreak.

Welcome to Babe2Wife

 Hi Diva,

This is Babe2Wife, a special blog for young and vibrant ladies who are intending to walk down the aisle someday and for those that have already taken the bold step of saying YES to the beautiful institution called marriage.

You will agree with me that marriage is a  very unique school of life where you are issued a certificate on your matriculation into the institution. Now, as simple and easy as that sounds, the expectations of maintaining the validity of the certificate are quite enormous but at the same time easy to actualise if certain principles guiding the institution are diligently upheld.